HOW DO WOMEN FALL IN LOVE TO MEN?!

Do you honestly believe that there is some action you can take to MAKE a woman fall in love with you?

You’re RIGHT!

This is exactly how step-by-step women fall in love with men, and how you can rig the tables so that she falls deeply in love with you.

Hey man: you may not know this, but, to make a woman feel special and fall in love with you is easier than you could ever imagine. In fact, there’s one simple reason women fall in love, and it’s chemically hard-wired into their brains. (Not some fluffy romantic notion of love, either. This is real, hard core science.)

 You will never wonder how women fall in love again. Here is how women fall in love and exactly what you need to do to make it happen. What is the real key to how women fall in love? The rationale behind how women fall in love with one specific man is easy: Women fall in love with a man who “gets” them.

And I mean REALLY gets them.

Women fall in love with men who get them on a deep, emotional level, and they call this a “bond” or a “connection” between them. No matter what happens between the two of them, this connection never breaks. She never falls out of love, even if she tries to hide it. (This is why you see so many beautiful, amazing women stuck with loser boyfriends, or even in abusive relationships.)

So how do you forge this super-strong “love bond”?

Well, as I’ve just explained, this love bond happens when a woman feels a man “gets” her on a deep, emotional level. Trouble is, it happens differently with every woman out there, because no two women are exactly the same. (If they were, we’d have a formula for love, and some antisocial maniacs would run around “programming” beautiful women to love them, guaranteed.)

Understanding that each woman is different is central to how women fall in love. You see, making a woman fall in love with you takes a variety of different things – from the conversations you have, to the dates you go on… to even the sex! (You may not know this, but when your woman has an orgasm, she releases floods of the chemical Oxytocin directly into her bloodstream.)

This chemical fools her brain into thinking she loves you!) But the real “trick” to making a woman love you is simple. This is the biggest, easiest, and most important thing you must do, if you want to know how to make a woman love you: You must figure out what makes her unique, and then talk to her in a specific way that lets her know you “get” her on a deep level.

In theory, that sounds so simple, it makes perfect sense, right? Of course. Well, in execution, most men screw it up. Here are a couple of examples:

Mistake #1: Trying to bribe your way into her heart

Expensive dates… Bouquets of red roses… Vacations to her favorite, faraway place… These are some of the common ways men like you and me try to “bribe” our way into a woman’s heart. This doesn’t work – no amount of money can help you buy love.

This is NOT how women fall in love, believe me. “Well then, how are rich guys so successful with women?” I can almost hear you asking. It’s simple: Rich guys get lots of sex, because they can be flashy with their money.

But when it comes to long-term, lasting relationships, lots of very wealthy men end up very lonely. In fact, an even higher percentage of wealthy men have MULTIPLE divorces than lower-income men, especially when you factor in women who don’t love them, and only married them for their money.

So make sure that – whatever you do – you keep your wallet in your pants, and you NEVER try to bribe your way into her heart.

Mistake #2: Complimenting her too much

“You look great!” “I love that dress on you!” “Wow, that’s so neat!” “You’re such a kind soul!” On an average date, the average woman will get forty to fifty compliments from just one man.

That’s a TON of attention! For example, if you shrunk your normal first date down to just one hour, and included the time you two spend eating, every other sentence out of your mouth would be, “Wow, you’re so incredibly amazing!” (And this has never been the way women fall in love.) With all that flattery, how are you supposed to get to know her?

How is she supposed to get to know you? You need to cut through the flattery, and get down to “business” – finding out what she’s really like, as a person. And then, once you find out something she doesn’t tell EVERY guy she dates, your well-timed, appropriate, specific compliment will make her heart flutter a little faster. She’ll love you for it. Until then, try to hold back on the sucking up. It makes you come across as a much weaker man.

Mistake #3: Treating all women exactly the same way. Mistaking her for a different one of 8 types…

You may think you treat every woman as a unique person. I’m bet you can zero in even better with the guaranteed and scientifically proven strategies I’m about to reveal.

How many times have you said something to a woman because “women seem to laugh whenever I say this,” or “the last girl I dated loved it when I did this?” If you’re like me, your number is HIGH.

Sadly, this type of “treating women the same” disease turns a woman off faster than calling her the wrong name in bed. It makes her think you want her only for her body, or only because she has a pretty face, and not because of the woman she is, on the inside.

Knowing this, don’t you think it would be wise to get to know your woman’s “type” before you talk to her, date her, or try to take things with her to the next level? You know, her “type” – the things that make her absolutely unique and determine what you need to do to make her fall in love with you...

Mawasiliano katika Mahusiano...

                                                               

Leo katika tasfiri zetu nitaanza na tafsiri ya Umuhimu wa Mawasiliano katika mahusiano ambao ni msingi mkuu katika misingi mitano ya mahusiano ama ndoa bora.

Mawasiliano mazuri katika mahusiano ni moja ya suala muhimu sana linaloweza kusaidia mahusiano yenu yawe na mafanikio.

Siyo kila mtu anajua namna bora na makini ya kuwasiliana kwa kuzaliwa nayo, hata hivyo tunaweza kujifunza. Basi kama una matatizo ya mawasiliano mazuri katika mahusiano yako unaweza kujifunza kwa kusoma makala hii.

Ukijifunza mbinu za kuwasiliana kila inapobidi na kwa namna inayotakiwa utaweza kusaidia mahusiano yako kuwa bora na yenye furaha na kuepuka kubaki katika mashaka ya ndoa yako kuingia katika orodha ya ndoa zilizovunjika.

Mawasiliano hayana maana ya kuongea tu. Kipengele muhimu sana katika mawasiliano ni uwezo wa kuwa msikivu. Wakati mwingine ni hilo tu linahitajika, kusikiliza tu!

Mwenzako anaweza akawa anahitaji kusikilizwa tu ili kuweza kutatua tatizo ama kuondoa mashaka yaliyokuwapo. Kama utahitajika kujibu ama kuelezea kuhusu jambo fulani basi baada ya kumsikiliza mwenzako kwa umakini mkubwa wote wawili kwa pamoja mnapaswa kujaribu kujadiliana na kufikia muafaka wa tatizo husika.

Mawasiliano ni suala pana kwa ujumla, ni pamoja na maneno ya kutamkwa na mambo ambayo si ya kutamkwa-matendo ama ishara. Mbinu za mawasiliano makini katika mahusiano zinajumuisha namna zote mbili za kuwasiliana na kuziainisha kwa uhakika.

Tuchukue mfano, kama mpenzi ana hasira, anaweza akakaa amefumbata mikono kimya akikutizama tu bila kusema neno. Hali kama hiyo ni jambo ambalo linahitaji umakini wako wa haraka. Kama utanyamaza na kumwacha bila ya kufanya chochote utasababisha ajisikie kususwa, kutohitajika na kupelekea mambo kuwa mabaya zaidi. Kusoma sura na matendo ya mwenzako ni kipaji ambacho unapaswa kufanyia kazi vyema. Kinakuwezesha kuelewa mambo mengi sana kuhusu mwenzako anavyojisikia kwa wakati fulani na kugundua hata kama anadanganya.

Kama wewe ni mtu makini na mwerevu basi unaweza kugundua mbinu mbalimbali za mawasiliano makini kwa kutilia maanani tu mambo yanayoendelea katika mazingira uliyopo. Ni vyema kama unahitaji msaada zaidi ili kuelewa mbinu mbalimbali za mawasiliano mazuri ukahudhuria mafunzo maalumu au kusoma vitabu mbalimbali kuhusu jambo hilo. Hii inaweza ikakugharimu kidogo lakini thamani yake itakuwa kama dhahabu pale ambapo itaweza kukusaidia kuokoa ndoa ama mahusiano yako.

Mawasiliano mazuri ni pamoja na kutoa kipaumbele hata kwa mambo madogo madogo na kumwonyesha mwenzako kwamba anathaminiwa. Kumwambia asante mpenzi wako isiwe ni jambo gumu. Kuonyesha kuridhishwa na jambo fulani ni ukarimu wa kawaida katika maisha.

Usichoke ama kukata tamaa kutamka, “NAKUPENDA”, ama “ASANTE” au “POLE” ama muhimu zaidi "SAMAHANI". Maneno haya ni vyema yakawa sehemu muhimu sana ya mahusiano yenu. Kila mtu anahitaji kujisikia anathaminiwa.

Uelewa ama maelewano ni sehemu nyingine muhimu katika mawasiliano ambayo imeachwa bila kufanyiwa kazi. Tukisema bila kufanyiwa kazi ina maanaisha kwamba mara nyingi katika mazingira mbalimbali ya mahusiano, hayaulizwi maswali ya kutosha kuweza kuweka mambo bayana. Tunadhania kwamba tunajua kile ambacho wenzetu wanakiongelea bila kutaka kueleweshwa vizuri zaidi. Kudhania mara nyingi kutakupeleka katika matatizo. Hivyo hakikisha unaelewa kwa uhakika ni nini kinaongelewa. Kama huelewi, uliza maswali hadi pale kila kitu kitakapokuwa wazi na kueleweka.

Ushauri bora kwa suala hili ni kujifunza, kujaribu, kujaribu na kujaribu. Jifunze mbinu za mawasiliano bora na makini katika mahusiano na kufanyia majaribio kila siku. Baada ya muda yatakuwa kama asili yako na hutapata tabu tena ya kufikiria namna ya kuwasiliana.

Kumbuka, bila juhudi na kujitolea kuwa na mawasiliano makini na bora katika mahusiano, mahusiano hayo ni sawa na mahusiano-yaliyokufa!

Anza sasa kuwasiliana ipasavyo… na jenga mahusiano/ndoa bora!

solving problems in relationships..

                                         What is the Best Way to Talk About Problems?

When problems arise in a relationship, couples are often told they need to "communicate" - or talk to each other.

In many cases, however, couples do not know how to talk about problems and communication only makes the situation worse.

For the most part, there are two basic ways of talking about problems:

Direct Accusation versus Problem Identification (described below). Unfortunately, most couples use Direct Accusation rather than Problem Identification when trying to resolve conflict.

Direct Accusation – Focus on Partner’s Behaviour

When upset or angry, many people confront their spouses by focusing on their partner’s behaviour. These accusations can be made directly “I am upset because you…” or even in the form of a question “why did you…?”

The motivation behind making such accusations is typically to change a spouse’s or partner’s behaviour. People believe that if they get upset and point out their partner’s mistakes, things will change. This rarely works.

If you accuse a partner of wrongdoing, partners typically:

• get defensive – fight back or withdraw (stop listening)
• offer an (insincere) apology designed to stop your attack
• hide and conceal similar behaviour in the future

The long term outcome of directly confronting a partner is:

• increased distance
• less understanding and greater dissatisfaction
• the lack of a genuine resolution
• increased future conflict

A more effective approach involves focusing on one’s feelings, not a partner’s behaviour.

Problem Identification – Focus on One’s Feelings

A better way to resolve relationship problems involves focusing on one’s feelings, rather than blaming a partner for what happened (even if, your partner deserves blame).

It is easier for a partner or spouse to hear what you have to say when you focus on your own feelings and not dwell on his or her mistakes. For example, if your spouse has a habit of coming home late – rather than make a direct accusation – “I hate when you're so late – why do you do that?” – It helps if you can focus on your feelings instead “I am feeling sad and a little frustrated. I sometimes feel lonely when you are not home.”

When trying to discuss a problem - it's important not to assign blame. Even saying something as simple as "It makes me feel uncomfortable..." can come across as an accusation - leading to a defensive response. Phrasing a concern as "I feel..." rather than "It makes..." is a more effective way of solving problems.

Your motivation for dealing with problems this way should be to get your partner to hear what you have to say. If you can get your partner to understand your point of view, you are much more likely to create a meaningful and lasting resolution.

By focusing on your feelings instead of your spouse’s behaviour, partners are more likely to:

• listen to what you have to say
• empathize with your position
• discuss the problem in a constructive manner

And there are many benefits of approaching relationship problems with this way:

• increased closeness, satisfaction and understanding
• greater potential for resolution and change
• less future conflict

Simply put, directly confronting a partner often leads to greater resistance, more conflict and deception. Of course, it is easier to get angry and make accusations, but doing so rarely leads positive, long term outcomes.

Try, try, try, practice… practice… practice !

Ijumaa Karim…

perfecting love making..

Wapendwa wasomaji wa Blog yetu,

Leo ningependelea walau kidogo kuigusa ile issue nyeti ambayo inawahusu wadau wangu wote wa blog-nikimaanisha VIJANA, WENYE MAHUSIANO na WALE walio katika NDOA. Lakini nitaizungumzia kwa kifupi nikigusia vipengele muhimu kwa matumaini kwamba itasaidia wale wote ambao wataizingatia na kuifanyia kazi. Mtaniwia radhi kwani nitazungumzia from men's perspective zaidi kidoogo kwa leo.

Tendo la kufanya mapenzi na mwanamke ni kipaji ambacho kila mwanaume rijali anadhani anacho. Lakini ki ukweli wapo wanawake wengi ambao wanaachwa wakiwa hawajaridhika mara baada ya kufanya mapenzi na wapenzi wao!

Bahati mbaya sana mara nyingi wanaume hawa wamekuwa wakipata ushauri toka kwa marafiki, kwa stori za vijiweni ama mtaani na wengine toka katika picha za ngono! Na kwana namna hiyo wamekuwa na dhana potofu kuhusu maana halisi ya kufanya mapenzi!

Wataalamu wa mambo ya mapenzi na mahusiano wanasema kwamba unapotaka kufanya mapenzi lazima ufuate utaratibu unaokubalika ambao umehakikiwa kumridhisha mwanamke baada ya tendo lenyewe.

*Utaratibu huu huwa una vipengele vitano (get her to the mood, practice fore play, Oral sex, Teasing and the act itself). Kwangu mimi pamoja na vipengele hivyo muhimu ningependa kuongelea mambo muhimu na ya msingi ambayo huboresha tendo hilo: (mwishoni kukiwa na dodoso kwa wasiozingatia..)

1. Maelewano- ili kuweza kufanya mapenzi na kila mmoja wenu akaridhika bila tatizo ni muhimu sana mkawa na freedom of mind and souls, kama wapenzi mkiwa katika migogoro na ugomvi mazingira ya kuwavutia kufanya ama ku enjoy tendo la ndoa hayatakuwepo, hivyo ni muhimu kuwa katika maelewano mazuri kabla ya kutaka kufanya mapenzi. (Watu wengi wamechukulia kama kufanya mapenzi baada ya ugomvi ama kutokuelewana ndiyo suluhisho la kumaliza ugomvi, hiyo ni kasumba na tatizo kwani mnafuga ugonjwa ambao utakuja kuwa tatizo kubwa mbeleni..zungumzeni na kumaliza tofauti zenu kabla. Kinyume na hapo ni kuudhalilisha tu utu wako.)

2. Usafi - Usafi ni muhimu sana kwa mwanaume lakini pia na hasa kwa mwanamke, hapa naongelea usafi wa mwili, kila mtu anafahamu umuhimu wa kuweka mwili safi kabla, baada ya kushiriki tendo ambalo linahusu kuukabidhi mwili wako kwa mwenzi wako kwa muda husika. Usafi wa mwili huongeza pia mvuto na kutoa uhuru zaidi kwa mwenzako ku enjoy kufanya mapenzi na wewe na ushirikiano muafaka! Mbali na usafi wa mwili ni muhimu pia kuzingatia usafi wa mazingira mnayofanyia tendo hilo, kwani mta relax na ku enjoy zaidi mazingira yakiwa safi na ni salama kwa afya ya mwili pia. (Washikaji wengine unakuta kwapa ama kinywa kinatema lakini ndiyo kwanza anataka game na ufundi kibao! Unaweza ukaenda ktk faragha nyingine, kwa mfano hotelini, unakuta mazingira ya sehemu ni ya kutumika na nyie kwa uchu mnajiachia tu! Jali afya yako..pangilia, vuta subira, tengeneza mazingira, safisha kiwanja, hata kama mnaamua kujiachia bafuni basi kuwe kusafi!)

3. Utayari- ni muhimu kusiwepo na mazingira ya kulazimishana kufanya mapenzi, kila mmoja awe ameridhia tendo hilo, mfano kutembea na mpenzi wa mtu, mtoto wa chini ya umri ama mwanafunzi au mume ama mke wa mtu, kufanya mapenzi kwa uhuru na mpenzi wako kuna nafasi nzuri zaidi kufurahia tendo la ndoa, lakini pia kumbuka kuna madhara ya kisaikolojia ambayo unaweza kuyapata bila kujua mara baada ya kufanya tendo hilo kwa kulazimishana au na mpenzi ama mume/mke wa mtu. (Uko usemi wa sisi waswahili kwamba cha mtu kitamu lakini huo ni ulimbukeni tu kwani kumbuka unajenga mazingira hatarishi na si salama kwa kuendekeza ngono zembe. Pia mla cha mwenzie... lakini kuna magonjwa na kufumaniwa pia.. usijenge aibu ama uadui katika maisha sababu ya tamaa ya muda mfupi, kufanya ngono tu!)

Ni vizuri pia mkawa mmekula vizuri, kuna vyakula ambavyo ni vyepesi ambavyo pia havi-keri kwa harufu ama uchovu wa kuvimbiwa, vivyo hivyo kuna vinywaji na matunda ambayo yanaendana na shughuli hii pevu bila ya kuzidisha kiwango! Muwe sehemu ambayo ni ya faragha, salama na inayokubalika walau, mapenzi yana sehemu zake huwezi fanya popote tu pale, faragha uleta uhuru zaidi.(Jamaa wengine wanatwanga mzee wa meza kama kilo na bia kadhaa, makachumbali kibao yenye vitunguu swaumu, fegi kwa wingi matokeo yake ni kukerana tu kitandani pamoja na kutoa hewa chafu! Jamaa wengine nao tena waume ama wake za watu bila aibu wanamalizaga haja zao katika vyoo vya bar na guest bubu za vichochoroni-lindeni utu na heshima zenu. Utu hauna thamani/haununuliki!)

4. Relaxation - hakuna kitu kingine muhimu kama kuuweka mwili katika mazingira ya kurelax, ondokana na mawazo na stress na focus katika shughuli iliyo mbele yako, utafanikiwa ku enjoy sana unapofanya mapenzi na mwenzi wako. Usisahau umuhimu wa kushirikishana mara baada ya kuanza kushiriki tendo lenyewe, hamna budi ku enjoy each and every moment ya game. *Mnaweza sasa kupitia hatua tano za wataalamu nilizotangulia kuzitaja awali hapo juu. (Jamaa wengine utakuta anaingia kwenye game, kipenga kimelia tu yeye na goli hajali kuna mabeki kati nyuma wala nini, piga, kamua, piga.. duh!  ni kweli wako wanaoridhishwa na game kama hizo lakini jaribu tofauti kidogo wakati mwingine uone matokeo, wako wenzetu pia wengine game imeanza lakini wao na sms, mara simu mara gazeti, jamani hizi shughuli huwa zina unyeti wake na kustahili kupewa wasaa, siyo wakati wa kuboana!.)

6. Jambo la mwisho na la muhimu kwangu la kuzingatia ni Usalama - Siyo jambo jema kufanya tendo la ndoa kama mmojawapo ana magonjwa ya kuambukia ya aina yoyote, labda kama mtakubaliana na kuchukua tahadhari stahili, muwe makini kuzuia mimba zisizotarajiwa ama kwa kutumia kinga ama njia yeyote mliyokubaliana ambayo haitamkwaza yeyote kati yenu, pia kuna magonjwa sugu na hatarishi kama STDs na Ukimwi-ni vyema kuchukua tahadhari kutomwamini na kufanya mapenzi na mtu ambaye hujui status yake kiafya! (Magonjwa kama Ukimwi hauonekani kwa macho na unampata yeyote, wakati wowote,  na tuzingatie kwamba wako binadamu wengine wasio na utu wanaosambaza ugonjwa wa Ukimwi kwa makusudi! Ni jambo la kusikitisha endapo starehe na furaha ya muda mfupi itakuja geuka kuwa sononeko la maisha yako yote!)

Kwa leo wapendwa wa blog naishia hapa, lengo la makala hii ni kutaka kusadia kuboresha namna ambavyo mnaridhishana katika kufanya mapenzi lakini wakati huo huo kukufanya uweze kuchukua tahadhari kwa yote yanayoweza kujitokeza katika mazingira tofauti.

Mbarikiwe katika mahusiano yenu!

Age difference between couples..

Let us start with some real life examples from various people testimonies below:

1. Irrelevant in my opinion!

I have dated men ranging from 10 years younger than me to 19 years older than me in my lifetime. I married a man who is 2 years younger than me, and we get along beautifully, but I don't think it has anything to do with age. Relationships are truly two people coming together who have common interests, common goals, common family values, etc. with enough differences to keep it interesting! Relationships are what you make them, and it doesn't matter how old either party is, in my own opinion. Looking at Anna Nicole and the oil millionaire, well, I often wondered what they had in common, but who am I to judge them? We all have soul-mates, and I truly believe the man upstairs is the one who knows what and/or who is best suited for us...as long as two people enjoy one another, who are we to judge? Age is just a number...

2. It still depends on the people.

The two couples I know that have been together longest have age differences that you would think would cause problems. The first has the wife being five years older than her husband and the second the husband is 15 years older than his wife. I got married late and am 15 years older than my wife and we will be celebrating our ten next year. I believe that is longer than most marriages last these days. Age is only one factor in the success of a marriage. Communication and humour help a lot.

3. It depends on the psychological makeup of the individual.

I've heard that marriages of great age difference tend to run in families, but I can't find anything to back that up, and it certainly wasn't true in my own family. My father was 21 years older than my mother (and still lived long enough to have a golden anniversary), yet my sisters and I married men much closer to our own ages. It was interesting to watch my daughter, the quintessential alpha female. All of her boyfriends, and eventually the one she married, were somewhat younger than she, because she has a psychological need to be the dominant person and to call the shots. In a sense, I think it is irrelevant, because we are all unique individuals with our own distinct notions of what we want from a relationship. That allows for a wide range of couplings, and who's to say what is right or wrong in affairs of the heart?

4. You may be familiar with the old folk-wisdom formula A woman should be one-half the man's age plus seven years. I think perhaps this was calculated by a man, because by seventy you're dating someone who is 42, which is pretty much reaching down into the previous generation. In actuality, I don't think age difference matters much as long as the two people are truly compatible. I actually knew someone once who had married his daughter's best friend from high school. This was after she had graduated. But she was the same age as his daughter. The daughter seemed fine with the arrangement, as did the wife. The husband was a retired Marine. Most of the guys I knew felt he must be the luckiest man in the world. He was much older than us at the time, but most of us would have felt the woman was too young for US! The most important consideration I think is that if the age difference is great, and usually in these cases it is the man who is older, that if you plan to have children you must consider the probability that you will die or become incapacitated before the children reach maturity. I believe this is something that a couple in this situation should talk over carefully and thoroughly. HAVING SEEN REAL LIFE EXAMPLES ABOVE, HERE ARE SOME FACTS ABOUT AGE DIFFERENCE? As defined by society, the practice of men preferring to marry younger women and women preferring older men has been in existence since the concept of matrimonial alliance itself came into existence. What has changed over the years though, is the age difference between husband and wife. More recently, women seem to prefer marrying highly successful men, who are considerably older than these women. Average Age Difference in Marriage over the Years A look at the statistical data compiled over the last century suggests that the age difference in a matrimonial alliance has been constantly changing owing to several underlying factors. This reversal in the average age difference for marriage was attributed to factors such as education, women becoming more and more independent, better contraception, etc. Today, things have changed considerably as both men and women are giving their career first priority, thus, making matrimonial alliance take a back seat. Does it affect the Marriage? New trends also suggest a drastic age difference in married couples, which can be as much as 15 years, today. The best example of this is the rising number of celebrity couples who are getting into matrimonial alliances despite the significant difference in their age. The bad part, though, is that the age difference in relationships can result in a wide range of marital problems. Some of the most common problems which can be attributed to extreme difference in age include lack of understanding, infidelity, sex drive disparity, financial problems, etc. A closer look and one would realize that all these problems are related to each other, either directly or indirectly.  For instance, generation gap can result in lack of understanding between the two partners and this may result in either of the partners finding solace with a third person, thus, leading to infidelity. So what should be the Ideal Difference? Ideally, the age difference between two people getting into a matrimonial alliance should be somewhere between 5 - 10 years. Basically, one has to take into consideration the fact that men attain maturity late as compared to women, which implies that men need more time to get accustomed to the responsibilities associated with a family. Marrying late also gives men enough time to get set with their career. Even though women seem to prefer getting married late so that they get enough time to fulfil their ambitions on the career front, they need to be careful as opting for marriage too late can affect the biological cycle and result in medical complications when having children in the future. Even though there are examples of happily married couples with a significant age difference, the number of such examples is considerably low. Interestingly, the same rule of the thumb applies in case of a situation, wherein a woman marries a man younger to her. However, in the end, these are merely numbers and to make any marriage work, one needs to put in a genuine amount of effort so as to ensure that the marriage is a long and happy one. Let's keep learning...