Do you honestly believe that there is some
action you can take to MAKE a woman fall in love with you?
You’re RIGHT!
This is exactly how step-by-step
women fall in love with men, and how you can rig the tables so that she falls
deeply in love with you.
Hey man: you may not know this, but, to make a woman feel special and
fall in love with you is easier than you could ever imagine. In fact, there’s
one simple reason women fall in love, and it’s chemically hard-wired into their
brains. (Not some fluffy romantic notion of love, either. This is real, hard
core science.)
You will never wonder how women
fall in love again. Here is how women fall in love and exactly what you need to
do to make it happen. What is the real key to how women fall in love? The
rationale behind how women fall in love with one specific man is easy: Women
fall in love with a man who “gets” them.
And I mean REALLY gets them.
Women fall in love with men who get them on a deep, emotional level, and
they call this a “bond” or a “connection” between them. No matter what happens
between the two of them, this connection never breaks. She never falls out of
love, even if she tries to hide it. (This
is why you see so many beautiful, amazing women stuck with loser boyfriends, or
even in abusive relationships.)
So how do you
forge this super-strong “love bond”?
Well, as I’ve just explained, this love bond happens when a woman feels
a man “gets” her on a deep, emotional level. Trouble is, it happens differently
with every woman out there, because no two women are exactly the same. (If they
were, we’d have a formula for love, and some antisocial maniacs would run
around “programming” beautiful women to love them, guaranteed.)
Understanding that each woman is different is central to how women fall
in love. You see, making a woman fall in love with you takes a variety of
different things – from the conversations you have, to the dates you go on… to
even the sex! (You may not know this, but when your woman has an orgasm, she
releases floods of the chemical Oxytocin directly into her bloodstream.)
This chemical fools her brain into thinking she loves you!) But the real
“trick” to making a woman love you is simple. This is the biggest, easiest, and
most important thing you must do, if you want to know how to make a woman love
you: You must figure out what makes her unique, and then talk to her in a
specific way that lets her know you “get” her on a deep level.
In theory, that sounds so simple, it makes perfect sense, right? Of
course. Well, in execution, most men screw it up. Here are a couple of
examples:
Mistake #1: Trying to bribe your way into her
heart
Expensive dates… Bouquets of red roses… Vacations to her favorite,
faraway place… These are some of the common ways men like you and me try to
“bribe” our way into a woman’s heart. This doesn’t work – no amount of money
can help you buy love.
This is NOT how women fall in love, believe me. “Well then, how are rich
guys so successful with women?” I can almost hear you asking. It’s simple: Rich
guys get lots of sex, because they can be flashy with their money.
But when it comes to long-term, lasting relationships, lots of very
wealthy men end up very lonely. In fact, an even higher percentage of wealthy
men have MULTIPLE divorces than lower-income men, especially when you factor in
women who don’t love them, and only married them for their money.
So make sure that – whatever you do – you keep your wallet in your
pants, and you NEVER try to bribe your way into her heart.
Mistake #2:
Complimenting her too much
“You look great!” “I love that dress on you!” “Wow, that’s so neat!”
“You’re such a kind soul!” On an average date, the average woman will get forty
to fifty compliments from just one man.
That’s a TON of attention! For example, if you shrunk your normal first
date down to just one hour, and included the time you two spend eating, every
other sentence out of your mouth would be, “Wow, you’re so incredibly amazing!”
(And this has never been the way women fall in love.) With all that flattery,
how are you supposed to get to know her?
How is she supposed to get to know you? You need to cut through the
flattery, and get down to “business” – finding out what she’s really like, as a
person. And then, once you find out something she doesn’t tell EVERY guy she
dates, your well-timed, appropriate, specific compliment will make her heart
flutter a little faster. She’ll love you for it. Until then, try to hold back
on the sucking up. It makes you come across as a much weaker man.
Mistake #3: Treating all women exactly the
same way. Mistaking her for a different one of 8 types…
You may think you treat every woman as a unique person. I’m bet you can
zero in even better with the guaranteed and scientifically proven strategies
I’m about to reveal.
How many times have you said something to a woman because “women seem to
laugh whenever I say this,” or “the last girl I dated loved it when I did
this?” If you’re like me, your number is HIGH.
Sadly, this type of “treating women the same” disease turns a woman off
faster than calling her the wrong name in bed. It makes her think you want her
only for her body, or only because she has a pretty face, and not because of
the woman she is, on the inside.
Knowing this, don’t you think it would be wise to get to know your
woman’s “type” before you talk to her, date her, or try to take things with her
to the next level? You know, her “type” – the things that make her absolutely
unique and determine what you need to do to make her fall in love with you...
