For my sisters and all the women out there, I believe in constant learning and accepting and respecting the differences of the other part, so keep reading...
You have to keep in mind
that he is with you. There is a reason why he picked to spend time and build a
relationship with you. Men will usually understand jealousy in the beginning of
the relationship. However, if you start being jealous of another female later
on, then he won’t be that understanding. He will think that you neglected
everything he has done to show you he cares for you. So what if he has a female
friend or two, he won’t do anything as long as he loves you.
2 – Being Overly Dependent
Every guy loves the
fact that he can help out and make a woman happy. However, it is a complete
turnoff if you don’t know how to handle some things by yourself. You should
have separate hobbies, likes and dislikes. There should simply be several
things that you don’t have to do as a couple.
3 – Showing Too Much Skin
He might find you
more attractive in certain dresses, but you shouldn’t always wear them when you
are going out in more public places. Maybe he fell for you just because that
dress really brought out your features, but the fact that he likes it doesn’t mean
a lot of other guys need to admire you in it as well. Save those skirts for a
more intimate occasion.
4 – Being Different in Front of His Friends
He may glorify you in
front of his friends, but that doesn’t mean that you have to alter yourself to
make his friends like you instantly. Chances are that you will embarrass him if
you do this. Instead, you should be yourself. Remember that your individuality
is the reason he likes you. Be normal, and let the relationship build slowly.
5 – Wearing Too Much Make-up
It is normal that you
try to look perfect for him, but remember not to overdo it. Some imperfections
might be the exact reason why he has fallen for you. He doesn’t want to go out
with the person you want to look like. He wants to go out with you.
6 – Being Too Emotional
Some women have the
tendency to cry more frequently. However, that doesn’t mean you should get
emotional about every other thing. He has to see that you are a strong person
and that you can take care of yourself. Hold your tears, or wipe them yourself;
it isn’t always his job to do this.
7 – Doing Too Much Gossiping
This is something
that you absolutely have to know – guys don’t even care a tiny bit about gossip
stories. They can sometimes skip past what you are saying and act like they are
intrigued, but they don’t want to hear gossip at all. It is a complete turnoff
when women talk about other people in this manner.
8 – Taking Too Much Time
Every guy expects a
woman to be late a couple of minutes. He understands that you need more time to
get ready. However, if you take too much time to do so, you will drive even the
most patient guy crazy. You should either learn faster methods to do all that
you have to, or start getting ready earlier.
9 – Always Wanting To Be the Centre of Attention
You don’t always have
to be the centre of attention. He will feel much better about himself if you compliment
him from time to time. You shouldn’t only watch out for this when you are alone
with him, but also when you have company. If you constantly put yourself in the
centre of a group, he will find you very unattractive. Remember that you aren’t
always the most important person in the world.
10 – Doing Too Much Nagging
Everyone forgets to
do a thing or two sometimes, but that doesn’t mean that you should hold that
over his head. If you constantly nag, then he won’t listen to you at all. It
might result in him avoiding doing something for you, just out of spite. If you
feel that he is busy, and will forget what he has to do, then politely remind
him once. If you are calm about it, then he will most likely do what he has to.
